Events and Workshops

Surrender: The ExoSex Convergence

A 5 day camping event in the forests of southern Washington State that brings together EcoSexuals to connect, celebrate, learn, and create.

June 14-18, 2017

Are you yearning for REAL connection? Are you longing for SANCTUARY with Nature? Are you willing to EMBRACE the Earth as your Lover?

Come, make your offering to Gaia.

Dance, sing, and play in the deep woods.

Many of us are on a quest. We seek meaning, passion, purpose, wholeness – something we have not experienced, but know is possible. As we cultivate raw instinct into talent, awareness into embodied wisdom, and interests into skills, we are on a path towards personal sovereignty — personal sovereignty that is the foundation of deep and respectful partnerships with Self, Earth & Community.

We have inherited a story that our labor is not ours — it belongs to the employers; that our body is not ours — it belongs to the state. For too long we have been taught to disembody our sexuality, to fear male sexuality, to repress female sexuality, and that anything else is wrong.

Yet, once we gain sovereignty over our own lives and bodies, we can reclaim the choice to give our time, energy and labor to what we love. When we gain sovereignty over our own sexuality, the true beauty and power of this erotic life force connects us to Life itself. The Earth is calling for us to turn our loving attention to the soil and trees, rivers and oceans. The Wild is calling for us to return to the interwoven communities that create thriving ecosystems.

Together, let us help each other heal by cultivating skill, finding purpose and creating wholeness. Let us help each other create that place where our bodies, our time, and our love are a gift to the Earth — and the Earth’s gift to us. Come, let us support each other in the journey to surrender in service of the communities and ecosystems that nourish us all, surrender in service of Love, and in service of Life itself.


Temple of Erotic Alchemy:

A Three-weekend Sacred Sexual Healing Course

October 21st & 22nd Noon-6pm each day
November 4th & 5th Noon-6pm each day
Weekend Ritual Retreat:
November 17th at 7pm to November 19th at 5pm.

The Temple of Erotic Alchemy (TEA) was created by Tai Fenix Kulystin. The intention of the Temple is to give you healing tools to facilitate your own transformation within an erotic magical container.

The first two weekends are instructional-based (include homework during the weeks in between) to give you a few of the tools you may need. The final weekend will be an overnight sacred erotic ritual retreat designed to give you the opportunity to use those tools, or others in your toolbox, to assist your own erotic healing and transformation. What in you has been ignored? What in you has been disconnected? What in you yearns to be recognized? How can we support you and your growth?

TEA is open to people of all genders, sexualities, bodies, relationship configurations, ethnicities, abilities, etc.

Within TEA we approach every relationship as sacred, every person (including ourselves) as someone worthy of love and belonging, and sexuality as sacred and healing.

TEA is unapologetically and radically queer, trans-inclusive, consent-based, sex-positive, feminist, anti-oppressive, trauma-informed, kink-knowledgeable, and poly-normative in our values. We recognize these are ideals to continuously strive toward and desire to create a safer space based upon these ideals. We also recognize we may fall short of these ideals and will always welcome feedback on how we can do better.